I hate distance.

Tiffany Evans - I’ll Be There

You’re right. You don’t deserve her.

You can say that you love her all you want, but I still wouldn’t know the immensity of love you have for her. Nonetheless, one thing I’m sure of is that you still care. In my opinion, I don’t think you love her enough though, because if you did love her enough, you wouldn’t have done the things you did.

You say that you don’t understand why she still holds on even after all was said and done, but maybe I understand. Maybe prior to this incident, she had already fallen deeply in love with you. You were the every moment of her every day, whether you were near or far. There was something about you that she absolutely adored. No, it was probably everything about you that she absolutely adored. If not, she loved you enough to push other factors aside. For you to request that she just forget about you, is quite a difficult task to complete. It’s very hard to let go of someone you love. You should know. You said that you still love her.

When you told me, “I can’t be with her. She deserves someone better. Someone who will treat her right,” it struck a chord in me. You’ve made a really stupid move, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t be with her. She’s still there. She’ll still waiting for you to turn around. If you believe that you’re such a bad guy, then you really don’t deserve her, or any type of girl like her. You would end up in a relationship where you and your “companion” will continuously do each other wrong. Now tell me, is that what you really want?

Listen to me before you even think, “Is she with me because she wants to change me?” No. Just, no. I haven’t known her for long, but I believe that she and I are one in the same. I don’t think her purpose in loving you, is to change you, but I do think that she wants to impact your life positively. She wants to be significant enough to make you think twice about the things you do because she believes that you deserve a great life. I mean, who wants to be in love, be a negative impact, and watch their love one suffer?

Ask yourself if you truly do love her and ask yourself if she’s really important to you because you see, you didn’t “think twice.” You didn’t think about her before you made the wrong move. She’s feeling insignificant. If you love her, make her feel special and important again.

I would know. I can relate.

Good luck, my dear friend.

Claudette Ortiz - Simply Amazing

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